Why cant she be a mature's girl? Although she is older one year than me but what she is thinking is really too "not mature".....her choice, her works or her thinks are always depend from her friends....i know friends are very important but are they one hundred percent believable? I dont think so....i think family's comments are more important than friends' comments, friends' comments only used to reference...she likes to believe her friends, i dont like her friends...my friends also dont like her friends too..now you know how "good" is her friends now....but she like to belive her friends...she dont have her own idea, of course some have...i want her mature....i want her look like my girlfriend when we are dating, but not like dating with a small girl....i think to done with her but i know she will change one day, and i will wait...the important is i still like her very much...
You sound like a jerk, yes you are. You cannot blame her just because she doesn’t go your way, but you tell her what you think its right for her. You can’t make such an assumption that she always relied on her friend in anything. Even if she does, she just has good friendship with them. You can’t make your own conclusion based on what you hear and see rather than the people who spend the most time with. Just because you love her, doesn’t mean she will love you the same way. You have to make her love you and that’s your turns to play your role. Be a supportive, give her encouragement and motivation and she will come to you more than her friends.
ReplyDeleteYou don’t change a person, but you change yourself to accept what she is and use her weakness as an attraction.
Think of it, I know both of you can be together because there’s so much different between both of you. Why I say so? Because it is the differences that you need to understand and interpret it as an attraction. If you don’t, you just make own life miserable and you wish you never date her at first place.
What qualities you expect your girlfriend to have? Do you ever ask yourself the same way? Do you even dare to list out the qualities? Forget it, this qualities just kill you if you keep thinking of it, because everyone have their own mindset of qualities and that can’t be same to everyone. By the time you find it, you are in the next world.
Maybe you love her to be perfect and you dislike her to be imperfect. Why don’t change it the other way, Love her because she is imperfect, and find the perfection by understanding the imperfection.
Time=understanding.